Where have the last three months gone??

Once again, a lengthy, overdue update...

Jett is now 3 months old. I can't believe it! It seems like the time has just flown by. He is growing ever bigger. I had to go through his 6 month clothes yesterday and pull out summer things for him to wear. They still look a bit silly on him as he doesn't fill them out, but we need them for length as he's still really tall. The cloth diapers make it worse since we need extra room at the bottom of his clothes anyway.

Jett is really a happy baby. He loves to sit with us and really pays attention to Lila. He's just about got neck control mastered as well. I tried to get a video of him talking to me the other day, but when he sees the camera he clams up, much like his big sister. Roman got a little bit of it though and I posted it below.

Lila has been somewhat accident prone lately. This week she fell down the stairs for the first time. She was on the landing at the top and as she went to grab the railing she sort of stubbed her toe and went somersaulting down the stairs. Luckily I was at the bottom of the stairs so I caught her before she did the second somersault, which would have landed her hard on the tile. She seemed to be more freightened than hurt. Then that same day she was in time out, but wouldn't STAY in time out. I went to pick her up to put her back and she did one of those flopping-like-a-fish-out-of-water things and smacked her forehead on the corner of a table. She had a HUGE goose egg on her head. It actually scared me it was so big. I thought for the first time in my life I might need to call 911. Roman's mom was here and both she and Roman had experience with such things so we put ice on it to reduce the swelling [BTW, I learned later that you are actually supposed to wrap their head tightly with an ace bandage, not use ice]. She didn't much care for the ice pack, so we had to bride her with treats to get her to sit still. The swelling eventually went down and now it's just a bruise. Hopefully that'll be all the accidents around here for a while.

We are getting closer to getting Lila's room completed. I finally found her a good mattress, well Roman's really the one that did. I wanted one that didn't have all the chemicals and flame retardants they put in traditional mattresses. They are SO expensive, but we found one on sale at a local mattress place by our house, and it's really nice and comfy. I bought her a cute bedspread and ordered her a step stool with her name on it as the mattress is too high for her to climb up on her own. She's still pretty happy to sleep in her crib, so I'm not overly eager to put her in her big girl bed. She fell out of the bed when we were at my dad's house too, so that makes me even more weary. Her bed is a daybed though, meaning there's only one side she could actually fall out of, so we'll just need one bed rail.

Here's a little funny from Lila...

Yesterday Lila was carrying around her little stuffed puppy dog. She says to me, "He's hungy Mommy" and then proceeds to lift her shirt up and put the puppy's face under her shirt and says, "he's drinking his milk Mommy". It was too cute!

Here are the photos (and video)...



This swimsuit was a hand me down from my friend Beth. I thought it was so cute on her daughter so she gave it to us when Ella outgrew it. We were at the neighbors' pool and Lila was so enamored by the dogs playing fetch. She kept asking to throw their toys.








You can't really see it the picture, but there's milk all over her. She has a big girl cup she likes to drink from, but we only let her drink from it in the kitchen because she spills frequently. The other day she kept coming into the living room and finally I said, okay, that's it, I'm going to take it. Well that sent her running back toward the kitchen, cup of milk in hand. When she got to the tile it spilled and she slipped and hit the floor and the rest of the milk splashed on her. She was NOT happy!

If you look closely (or click on the picture to enlarge it) you can see the goose egg on the left side of her forehead. This was after the swelling went down considerably. It looked like a ping pong ball under skin beforehand.

Baby Jett and Grandma Frances

My diva daughter! Lila got a hold of neighbor Jenna's sunglasses.

Below is the video of Jett talking

Minnesota

If I had to sum up our trip to MN in one word, I think it would have to be "cursed". Okay, maybe cursed is a bit strong, but it was definitely problem-filled.

PROBLEM ONE: We'd planned to go for seven days, Tuesday to Tuesday, to sort out all the things at my dad's house. My cousins are going to rent his house, so we just had those seven days to get everything out of the house. Well Roman ended up with a couple meetings he couldn't change. So he flew up with us last Tue, left Wed night, flew back to MN Thr night, then left again Mon morning and met us back at the airport in Houston Tue night. Thank God for my mom! If she hadn't come with us I'd have gotten absolutely nothing done with two kids to handle. I can barely get things done at my own house with my two kids here.

PROBLEM TWO: My aunt and uncle were planning a trip to Texas so they offered to take their big heavy duty pickup truck and tow a trailer with all the things from my dad's house that we wanted to take here. This option was about 1/4 as expensive as our previous option, which was to rent a pod and have it transported here once we loaded it. Well my aunt was having some health problems so they cancelled their trip. We scrambled to get a pod and it was delievered Monday morning. With Roman gone, my mom and I recruited a bunch of people to help us pack it up.

PROBLEM THREE: The dog.

Noli was staying at my mom and step-dad's house while we were gone. My step-dad let him outside one night and just as he ran out the door, a spot light Kent had on created a big shadow and scared Noli really bad. He was so scared he went running back in the house, pooping and peeeing as he ran. Kent put him back outside so he could clean up the mess and when he came back Noli was gone. Kent put up posters, searched the neighborhoods around their house, and called the shelters in the area. I did some online searching and put a lost dog posting on the SPCA website, but we haven't found him.

We all miss him, but I was most concerned about Lila. Within an hour of us coming home on Thr Lila asked, "Where's Noli?". Then Wed she wanted to take Noli's food over to my mom's house for him. I told her that Noli ran away and when she asked where he went, I told her that we didn't really know, but that maybe he went to look for Papa [my dad]. She keeps randomingly saying, "Noli runned away?" and I just keep telling her "Yep, he ran away" and she says "Oh". I imagine in time she'll stop asking.

PROBLEM FOUR: My thumb...it starts with the bedroom set you see in the picture below.

I had put this bedroom set of my dad's on Craig's List and someone had wanted to know if the nightstand cabinets separated from the headboard. I was trying to move the cabinet over to see if they separated and the overhead piece above the mirror fell on my thumb. Yeah, you see that big wood piece? That's the one. It was SUPPOSED to be screwed in, but it wasn't. Well when it fell the corner of it lacerated my thumb to the bone. Hi ho, hi ho, off to the ER I go. Luckily my cousin Jenny was there so she stayed with Lila, and my mom and I took Jett with us. The ER doctor was concerned that there was either some tendon damage, or some damage to the casing around the thumb joint, so she put my thumb in what she called a splint. She basically made what I'd call half a cast around my thumb, hand, and wrist to hold my thumb in a thumbs up position. I went to a hand doctor here in Houston the other day and he said it looked fine and that the clicking at my thumb joint was probably due to swelling.

IT WAS AWFUL having that thing on my hand!! You don't realize how many things you can't do when you don't have one thumb. And of course, it had to be my right hand as well, making it even more difficult. Those stupid snaps on baby clothes, those look me forever to get snapped. All is healing up nicely now though, so it's all water under the bridge. Thank you God that it wasn't something serious--I need my thumb!






Before the stitches



My splinted thumb

Two days after the stitches came out--not too bad.

Well I think that about sums up the majority of the issues we had. I had a really hard time letting go of my dad's things. He really loved the things he had in his house, because most all of them were antiques that came from his parents and extended family. I sit and lament the things I let go, but I couldn't keep everything. As hard as it was to go through all my dad's things, it was great to see my family, and they were all SO helpful! I could never have done it without them.

Below are some random photos (and a video) I took before and after our trip. Unfortunately, I didn't have time to take any photos while we were in MN.

Lila was sharing her giraffe with her brother

Chillin' in the bath

First time in the neighbor's pool this year.

She is OBSESSED with drinking from the Sesame Street "big girl cup" she got from Marta at Roman's office. I cannot count the number of times she's spilled on herself, but we only put water in it, and just little bits at a time.

Roman says she looks like she partied too hard.

Still smiling with one pirate eye

My baby is such a big boy--12 weeks already, where does the time go?! He straightens his legs and stands up all the time. He is so long that now his 3-6 month sleepers and some of the shirts are getting to be too short. It's crazy because there's all this extra room in them because he's so skinny, but then you can see his belly sticking out the bottom.

We've managed to weather the colic stage and now he's so easy and predictable. He only really cries when he's hungry, tired, or needs a diaper change. He still has some gas issues, esp. in the evening, but it's 1000% better than it was. He's so happy and smiles at us all the time. We have little conversations with him as well. After he eats I'll put him in his chair and we'll smile and talk to each other. He coos and makes all sorts of noises when I talk to him.

This is a video of Lila singing her ABCs. She's modified the song a little, but she has it mostly right.

Minnesota Zoo

The one and only thing we did while were in MN was to take the kids to the zoo. We went with my two good friends from middle/high school, Michelle and Heather, and their kids. Here are some photos, all taken by Michelle, who is a professional photographer (http://www.masterverkphotography.com/index2.php#/home/).

Heather's kids had so much fun getting soaked by the sprayer, and she was so sweet, she just let them be kids and get wet. I would have been freaking out. A lesson for me that I need to relax a little! Thanks Heather!!

Michelle's son Elliott

Lila giving Heather's daughter Eden a kiss. This one and the one below are Heather's photos...thanks for letting me borrow!

Me, Michelle, and Heather

Last day of school/2 month checkup

Today was Lila's last day of Mother's Day Out. I can't believe how far we've come. Her first day of school was so hard for us both. As soon as I left the room, not only did she cry, but for the first time sha cried "Mama, Mama, Maaaaamaaaaaa!" It broke my heart, but it was just one day a week and I knew it was good for her to be there. It took a couple weeks for her to adjust, and then in January she started ASKING to go to school. She was having so much fun we signed her up for another day! Her teacher, Mrs. Diane, says Lila is her little helper and the school director told me "Lila is Mrs. Diane's lovebug." I took a couple pictures of her today. She'll get to see Mrs. Diane and Luke (Mrs. Diane's son who was in her class) this summer too. Mrs. Diane is going to watch kids at her house so we're going to take Lila over there one or two days a week so she can play with other kids during the summer.

Jett is two months old already! Time flies. We went for his two month checkup yesterday and Dr. Wolens says he looks great. He weighs 11lb 15oz which puts him in the 58th percentile. He seems so big it's hard to believe that 42% of babies still weigh more than that at 2 months. His head size has gone up a lot. It was in the 35th percentile at birth and now it in the 76th percentile. He's in the 91st percentile for his height though...long and lean, just like Daddy. He's got my long torso for sure, and we're hoping he'll get Roman's long legs to balance him out. Roman's 6 feet and his dad was 6'3, so I imagine Jett will be tall too.

We are still working on treating the trush. We stopped the purple medication you saw in the previous post too soon apparently, so it came back, but not as bad. So we're back to the purple lips for a while. The doctor prescribed another medication, but said that the Gentian Violet, which is really more of an herbal type medication, is the most effective at treating it. And besides, the prescription has to be used 4 times a day, the Gentian Violet we only have to do once. Having enough time is a problem for me right now, so once a day is much easier for me, even if it is messy.



Lila and Mrs. Diane

The kids in her Thursday class (Sarah, Addison, Lila, and Luke). Mrs. Diane said that Lila is the one who gives Luke a run for his money. Luke is the youngest of Mrs. Diane's three boys so he's rough and tough, and Lila's the only one who will really stand up to Luke. They have a love-hate relationship. One second they're fighting over a toy and the next they're hugging. Today Mrs. Diane told me they were hugging and kissing all day. Don't tell Roman!

My long-torsoed baby, in his stripes from Marta

I thought this was cute, her skirt and Daddy's hat

Conversations with a two year old

Lila has been saying all sorts of funny things lately. They might not seem funny once I type them out, but I'll share none-the-less.

As a side note, we are going to be in MN June 9-16th.

This morning I thought I heard her making noise in her room so I went up to get her. When I walked in she was still laying down in her crib.
Me: Hi Lali, were you just resting.
Lila: No Mommy, Lali Bird just SEEPING Mommy.
Me: Oh, I'm sorry I thought you were awake. I have your breakfast ready.
Lila: WOO WHO!

The other day she grabbed Jett's hands and put them together and said "Baby Jett say payers. God is great! AMEN!"

Me: Lila, how old are you?
Lila: ummmm, tunny [that would be 20] months.
Me: Nooo, you're two Lali.
Lila: No, tunny months Mommy.

Lila: Mommy, Lali Bird have an owie(holding out her finger for me to look)
Me: I don't see anything Lali. (and I look away to see the weather forecast on TV)
Lila: MOMMY!! LOOK! It's RIGHT there! (and sticks her finger right in my face)

Me: Lali, are you Mommy's girl? (this usually elicits a "Lali Mommy's girl")
Lila: Noooo, Daddy's girl.
Me: What?? Okay. Well you can be Mommy's girl and Daddy's girl.
Lila: (while dancing around the room) Lali Daddy's girl and Mommy's girl and Gana Nanny's girl and Gampa Kent's girl and Baby Jett's girl and Noli's girl and.....and.....(and then she couldn't think of anymore people so she ran out of the room)

Me: Lali, I love you.
Lila: Wuv you TOOOOO Mommy. Wuv you too Daddy. Wuv you Mommy.

Here are a couple recent photos...


I'm pretty sure Jett had thrush, so we used this medicine that turned his mouth bright purple! It was a MESS!



Gabi and Sofie came over to play



Jett is so long his feet are already to the bottom of his 0-3 month sleepers, and he's wearing some 3-6 month clothes. We weighed him last week and he's just over 11 lbs! I can't wait to find out his stats when we go for his 2 month checkup next week.

Chillin' in Daddy's lap

Lila got these cool peek-a-boo style books for her bday from her friend Bentley.

Mother's Day

We had a great Mother's Day--well really it was more of a Mother's Day weekend for me! Saturday Lila spent the day with Grana Nana and Grandpa Kent so we could go on a shopping spree. My gift was a host of gift cards to use at Banana Republic, Gap, and Old Navy. I only used a few of the cards, but can use them online at a few other stores too, so I've got endless things to choose from! I like to take my time and mull over my purchases, much to Roman's dismay as money/gift cards burn a hole in his pocket.

On Sunday Grana Nana, Grandpa Kent, and Grandma Frances came over for breakfast. Roman and Kent made us a huge breakfast of eggs, bacon, toast, fresh fruit, and waffles. It was wonderful!! We spent the rest of the day just relaxing around the house.

Jett is growing like a weed. I don't know exactly how much he weighs, but it's got to be nearing 11 pounds now. He has started smiling in response to us. Yesterday he gave me and my mom a bunch of great smiles for Mother's Day. I got a couple photos. We're still having nursing issues, so I am mostly pumping milk and giving him a bottle. I try to nurse him at night in hopes that sooner or later he'll get it right, so we'll see. He still has evening colic which seems to be related to a lot of gas and tummy trouble. The baby DOES NOT burp well, and so I'm sure by end of the day all those tummy bubbles make it down and turn to gas pain. In the last six weeks he has only spit up three times I think, so whatever that burping/spitting up mechanism is, it must not work so well for him. The not spitting up is great, the not burping well is not great.

Lila is wonderful as well, and a constant source of joy and entertainment. Her language skills continue to grow. They seemed to have taken another leap a short time ago and now she's really talking in full sentences. Not to mention repeating what we say all the time. Today on the way to school she was putting her finger to her lips and saying "shush, shush" over and over again. She continues to be enamored with her little brother, constantly saying "Wanna kiss Big Dude's head" [Daddy called Jett "Big Dude" a couple times and now that's what Lila calls him.], "Wanna hug him", and she tries to put his paci in his mouth for him and she helps hold his bottle. She loves to help and she'll tell me, "Mommy, Ali Bird helping". She still refers to herself as Lali Bird, but drops the first "L" in most everything.

Here are some pictures from Mother's Day, as well as misc others. There's a video I took yesterday as well.

Me and my kiddos!

Proud big sister

Couple smiles

Wearing Daddy's hat

I loved her little pigtails. She kept saying, "Mommy, Ali Bird got TWO ponytails"

She always wants to sit in his bouncy chair and car seat.

Daddy and Jett